Am writing this post with utmost depression and anger. Since the day I started using social medias I have come across many flirts,perverts who find the social medias for an online relationship..which is much more safer for cowards as they do not have to show their identity and do not have to take responsibility and they can have fun. I just pity you! When you proclaim the authority of men over women in the world at least show some manliness be a man in all sense..dont just be a man in appearance and something else in character (I wont ever compare it to being a woman or transgender for they are far better than many,who proclaim themselves as men
Leave this group aside, am more angry with another group who takes the role of protective brothers and friends..who constantly advise us how to behave on social media..not to be adventurous in accepting friend requests,in posting your pictures,in posting your views on social media. I have always thought out of box and all these rules and regulations (meant only for women) could never get in to me! I tried to remain me ..just me...
But I lost many times for I was fighting alone and there were many to fight with me..including family and friends. I might have looked like a rebel to them. I was not ...I was just trying to find my own space in this world. I tried one after another social medias where I can be myself but like many cowards I never hid my identity by creating fake profiles or profiles with fake names. When I was so fed up with the moral policing I tried to find solace in blogging ....and I had to quit writing for a while as I found most annoying person there. He proclaimed himself as my well wisher and guardian..and started to show me the right path..how pathetic.
What I understood from my life is you can fight with the whole world..if you have your small world on your side. If some pervert uses my photo as his/her profile it should not defame me but them..as its a proof of their cowardice. And if someone shares my photos or videos on social media they are to be blamed or questioned..as its a breach of my privacy. And the first response of people should not be "first of all why did you put your photos on social media" it should be "do not worry we know you and we are with you..you will be the same whatever someone does with your photos" .
Someone advised me do not sing on smule later you may find your songs or videos on adultery website with the caption Mallu aunty rocks etc..hellow Mr.wellwisher, first of all let me clarify me or my family do not visit adultery websites like you do and singing is not all an adulterated thing!! And I believe even if not the whole world understands or supports me I will have at least a few by myside..who know the real me..and who love me for who I am. So I do not need your advises or morality classes for the time being. And rather than trying so desperately to get in to my good books and friends list go and have a life. Just get out of my privacy and my life.
As long as a lady has her family and a few friends by herside nothing in this world can beat her..but if she does not have her family by her side..she loses..and you wont ever have the original herself back in your lives.
#mylife #mywish #myright. And #myfamily..thats all what matters!
