I am someone who loves to do everything on my own,very particular about how things should be at home or at work. A typical Taurean,who is happy with the routine chores,I don't like sudden changes in life! I love my home and surroundings to be clean and neat,and am mostly satisfied if I do it my own! I need things exactly where I kept ! Everything messy irritates me!
And now what happened is that am on complete bed rest,only permitted to use the washroom and to eat on my dining table! If you have read my earlier posts,you should know how I have lost two kids already and the stress of infertility treatment. So now Alhamdulillah by God's grace am pregnant again,for the third time. And this time also,the baby is not so willing to come out without making some complications! So last week I was hospitalized on emergency had my cervical cerclage done and now am on complete bed rest! Always made to lay on my bed in head low position! And you should appreciate that I still manage to type in :p it's in fact pure boredom which made me post a blog.
My Mom rushed to Dubai,leaving Papa,my bro and everything else, when she heard that am hospitalized. She is not in her prime,actually now I should look after her! But helplessness at its peak, Umma is here to take care of me for a month,then she have to fly back once her visit visa is over!
And I will need someone else rest of my pregnancy,now am on my 23 rd week only, still a long way to go...but Thank God am half way through it.
So now I know how exactly people who are bed ridden might be feeling,what all emotional stages they might be undergoing! When you can't do things your own,when you don't have control over things that's going on you will be irritated,you might get angry over very small things,and finally you will be sad,will be desperate over your helplessness!! You will start to ignore things,which in normal case you can't even tolerate. That's how life and God teach us how at times we all are helpless..I know and agree that when God decides on somethings we all are helpless but am talking about the minute daily chores which we used to do and can't do for some time or anymore!! For example first 2days after the procedure I couldn't even brush my teeth,I was not allowed to take a bath and I was all sweating and itchy with the summer going on here!!
So now here I am in my bed room,just lying on my bed,ignoring the small world around me and hoping for a much better,bigger world with my little one,In Sha Allah !! Do pray for us :)
And now what happened is that am on complete bed rest,only permitted to use the washroom and to eat on my dining table! If you have read my earlier posts,you should know how I have lost two kids already and the stress of infertility treatment. So now Alhamdulillah by God's grace am pregnant again,for the third time. And this time also,the baby is not so willing to come out without making some complications! So last week I was hospitalized on emergency had my cervical cerclage done and now am on complete bed rest! Always made to lay on my bed in head low position! And you should appreciate that I still manage to type in :p it's in fact pure boredom which made me post a blog.
My Mom rushed to Dubai,leaving Papa,my bro and everything else, when she heard that am hospitalized. She is not in her prime,actually now I should look after her! But helplessness at its peak, Umma is here to take care of me for a month,then she have to fly back once her visit visa is over!
And I will need someone else rest of my pregnancy,now am on my 23 rd week only, still a long way to go...but Thank God am half way through it.
So now I know how exactly people who are bed ridden might be feeling,what all emotional stages they might be undergoing! When you can't do things your own,when you don't have control over things that's going on you will be irritated,you might get angry over very small things,and finally you will be sad,will be desperate over your helplessness!! You will start to ignore things,which in normal case you can't even tolerate. That's how life and God teach us how at times we all are helpless..I know and agree that when God decides on somethings we all are helpless but am talking about the minute daily chores which we used to do and can't do for some time or anymore!! For example first 2days after the procedure I couldn't even brush my teeth,I was not allowed to take a bath and I was all sweating and itchy with the summer going on here!!
So now here I am in my bed room,just lying on my bed,ignoring the small world around me and hoping for a much better,bigger world with my little one,In Sha Allah !! Do pray for us :)
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